I’m talking about how institutions refuse to acknowledge the validity of anyone else’s view point.
My feeling here is that you mean to specifically talk about learning vs. working.
I say this because I have never heard of a Litvish institution refusing to acknowledge the validity of a Chasidishe institution or vis versa.
In fact when I spoke to my Rav about sending my children to Yeshivah he specifically told me that it doesn’t matter whether they go to a Litvishe of Chassidishe Yeshivah and that I shouldn’t worry about them feeling out of place as at this point in time both sides are mixed.
No one ever said to me ‘Sephardim are sinners- stay away from them!’ Or, ‘ Oberlanders, we don’t mix with their type’. Never heard anything about the evil Yekis or Yemenites either.
Also, what is a ‘life-goal’?