Well I wasn’t asking to give up on chivalry, just getting walked to the door.
Obviously there is no clear “right” way of doing things. Some girls think you’re a slob if you don’t walk to the door, some prefer it but it’s not a big deal, others hate it. Some think it’s a good idea to ask, others think it’s “awkward awkward awkward.”
My point is that you women aren’t exactly giving us a clear message and it’s sort of unfair to blame us here.
I’m thinking the best thing for me is to not do it, (my reasoning being Shav V’al T’aaseh) and if a girl is so nitpicky that she will dump a guy for not walking her to the door, well she probably wasn’t meant for me anyway.