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Good Question- Because when I post from my Blackberry, the sreen only allows me a certain amount of room to see what I’m posting, more than that I would not see what I’m writing, so when I hit enter it goes to the next line where i can see what I’m writing.
I’m a poet
And I didn’t even know it
“Also, exactly what is it that you are expecting that you are not getting? Could you be clear about that? “
Perhaps a bit of warmth, or that I should feel that she’s interested
Either way, it’s all good, the RBS”O has a plan for me and I need to just keep on davening that HE should point me in the right direction.
I wasn’t really asking for advice, I was simply pointing out, based on previous posts on this thread, that it’s not all black and white and each situation needs to be discussed with a mentor, situation by situation
We’ve created a script about what needs to be done in our lives and how we think we should behave, shidduchim, yeshivas, that we forget that we are all individuals, with individual characteristics, personality, ideas, goals, hashkafahs, etc. that we must remember that about ourselves and each other, we are not objects. We should do the right thing, follow the Torah and seek and have for ourselves a Rebbi, mentor that can guide us.
Ad bias goel tzedek….amen
shmooze