we try not to choose bw 2 bad things coming upon us. words or even typed words can be extremely powerful. We dont want either! There is a story that two high school girls were once sitting and discussing which is worse not getting married until 30 or waiting 10 years to have children. They each picked differently and were talking about the pros and cons. The girl who said she would rather not have children for 10 years was one of the first to get married but didnt have any children for 10 years and the other girl didnt get married until 30 and had a very difficult time in shidduchim through it all. So weather this story is true or not, i think we should just be careful with the way we talk and word things so as not to bring any ayin hara or other bad upon us! Thanks!
~GaUrDiNg My ToUnGe FrOm CaViTiEs~