pashutah yid u completely missed my point! i was trying to say that it is not smart to pick 1 of two bad things bc your choice and the words you say can be very powerful. I was explaining that it probably is not smart for someone to decide whether they want to be in emotional or physical pain because we dont want either of them, and this could cause ayin hara upon us. The story was just an example of whats happening here. Two girls decided between two bad things which would be better and the way they chose brought ayin hara and it came true. I’m not sure if the story is true, and dont feel the need to go into the pros and cons of each side, but just hope you understand my real point!
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