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ZachKessin
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Watch them very carefully. Watch how they treat other people who may be percived as “inferior” socially. How a man treats his rabbi won’t tell you as much as how he treats the janitor.

Also watch in terms of stressful situations. While not everyone is perfect under stress (G-d knows I’m not) its still a good indicator.

Also look at who his friends are.