smartcookie & guardmytongue; Because she doesd not live in my house. I only found out (about her complaint) by reading about it on CR. It’s like having a conversation that is not confidential and let everyone else eavesdrop on it. Also, it shows how different people read different meanings into simple statements.
“Guardmytongue”. You are, unfortunately contradicting your name. You are accusing someone of being rude when this is not the case at all.