And of course we treat our wives like queens but the way its supposed to be woman doing housework.
If a man is not fulfilling his terms of the ketubah (AKA financial support), why does the housework fall to the woman? I can guarantee that a Prince is likely to take out the garbage before a Queen in all cultures.
I live in Teaneck. The men who work do not just float in, mumble words and then leave. They come, they daven with a lot of kavana, learn when they can, and leave. Perhaps Teaneck is the true Ir hakodesh, not Lakewood? LOL