nooo. bygirl93
you misunderstood me
like if your running late- not if your running early.
like if you say oh we won’t be later then 10PM and you come home 1115 PM that bothers me. its one thing to say oh 10, 1030 ish, but saying explicitly that we WON’T be later then ___ and then coming an hour and 15 later, that’s frustrating. { so call in that sense}
but in terms of shabbos– try to stick to the times you say, 15 mins isnt a big deal but hour + , that is.
but you made very good points.
also awkward is in between me getting there and you leaving, sometimes even 20 mins , soo much pressure : )