lightitup, it is hard to advise on what you said. Usually if it doesn’t “click” it doesn’t click. But what is it exactly you are looking for? What is your definition of “attracted”? Are you expecting fireworks or bells? Or are you expecting to think about him when you are not together? There is a huge difference.
It is very important that there be an attraction but you might not recognize it right away and there is also a possibility that he might not really let his full personality shine through the first few dates. So I usually tell my kids unless there is something bothering you to make you stop keep going. I don’t believe that 2 dates is enough to get to know a person and allow things to click because it doesn’t always click right off the bat. This can be proven by the fact that many marriages came about after do overs. It is possible that neither one of you have let your guard down to bring the best out in either of you. So if there isn’t anything you can put your finger on that would cause you to stop try to think of the positives in him and things to admire about him and keep going. You will have a better sense of whether it is heading anywhere in another week or two. Just relax and don’t put pressure on yourself.