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smartcookie
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Aries- nobody’s denying that men are out for Shiktzas too. But when they see our Heimishe, Frum woman looking a certain way, they think it’s ok to look like that.

(When with a shiktzah, they know it’s wrong and don’t expect their own wives to look/act that way.)

Please don’t deny this problem. Obviously, the ultimate fault is the man’s fault. But it’s the WOMAN’S Tznius that brings problems upon the men. They bring the Yetzer Hora and make it very difficult for men to keep their eyes to themselves.

Maybe you just don’t look out enough. Wait until the winter jackets come off and then tell me if it’s a normal situation out there.