Your indignation is misplaced.
I am not advocating anything, nor making any judgments. I am simply adding up the sum of the previous posts.
It was posited that a problem in sholom bayis is men looking at other women, which is caused by said other women dressing inappropriately.
Implicit was the suggestion that men are more likely to find a woman attractive is she is dressed inappropriately.
I just added up that if so, the woman who dresses appropriately, while helping her neighbor, will be hurting herself.
Of course, that is not a justification.
And it may not even be true, as you are all now saying.