I heard this story first hand:
An Orthodox Rabbi had a FRUM female secretary with whom he was very close. One nice day, he divorced his wife and married this woman!!! She was very attractive and wore less than modest clothing.
Wonder why this almost NEVER happens to yeshivish or chassidish people? Is it because we’re “NARROW MINDED”, and do as the chazal say? “
Whew! Where to begin???? Observateen – What makes you think this never happens among the people you describe? I am not going to educate you to the facts of real life, but I personally know of situations that are less than tzniusdig, that involve people in that demographic, just as it does across the board. Nobody gets a pass from their Yetzer Hara.
Let me ask you a question – if the secretary involved on the story you posted had worn extremely modest clothing, and still became close with and married the rabbi, would you not be equally upset?