eclipse – “They fault you for everything.If they don’t fault you,they defend him.
Example:
Me:My husband raises his fist at me when we disagree.
Rav:Did he actually hit you?
Me:No,but it’s pretty scary!
Rav:Well,THIS IS THE WAY A MAN GETS ANGRY.The main thing is he didn’t HIT you.”
I can’t understand how anybody can raise a fist at anyone, especially a wife, unless it’s in self-defense!