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Most women have a “need” to be married and to have children. It is an inner yearning and today’s society which looks at you and puts a “time” frame on what has to be done when doesn’t help any. If everyone had their own crystal ball and could possibly know that everything will be fine and they will be married at a certain stage in their life and they will have children b”h at a certain time in their life, they could relax and enjoy each day as it comes. But our society puts so much pressure on young people that when they say “Modeh Ani” each morning they cannot even have the true kavonah for that.
Hashem has a plan for all of us, we need to forget about the yentas around us and work on our own individual emunah and bitachon. Keep your eye on the prize and don’t let anyone get in your way.