aries, “today’s society which looks at you and puts a “time” frame on what has to be done when doesn’t help any”.
Agreed, and HOW!!!
When girls in the frum community get to their mid twenties or thirty, theyre lucky if they’re not suffering from depression, to some degree, or thinking about slowly going off the Derech, worst case scenario, or becoming much less frum, at best ( quietly thinking if there was a G-d, He’d know how alone and ashamed I feel…). Constantly going to friends weddings, brises, kiddushes, one after another, with old friends talking about their husbands and babies…..
“Keep your eye on the prize…” is easier said than done.