Reply To: After the boy says yes…..

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If I felt that I needed one (1) week to do research, I would understand that girl would be entitled to that as well. Obviously that’s not how I feel, and is thus clearly not what I practice. It’s not a middos thing, it’s a practicality thing. Perhaps the ones with middos issues are the ones who feel that every attribute in a potential date (…spouse) needs to be perfect. I’d say the ones (1’s) who take two (2) days for research are the “better” ones.