A bit off topic
My son in law at one point drove for a “Heimishe” car service & he had a standing order to drive a Chahsuv Rav & his Rebbetzin to an out of the way park where they had a bit of private time
I met a friend who inherited his father’s beth midrash walking with his wife while carrying a briefcase. Five minutes later I saw them coming back. My guess they were out for a stroll & the brief case was just camouflage