i’m serious i am a chosson and im getting no gifts at all.
Then your choices are very clear — what’s more important to you — the gifts or the girl?
If the gifts are more important to you, then by all means break off the engagement. If the girl is more important to you, then ask yourself whether it’s worth the shas and watch to begin a family war that will likely last for years. IMHO, it’s NEVER worth it.
You’re already getting the most important thing in the world — your future wife. Anything else besides that should be viewed as gravy — nice if you get it, but still fine even if you don’t.
The Wolf