can you get me a cheap watch
If it means that much to you, buy yourself a watch.
At this point, I’m done with you. I don’t believe your story anymore. If the important thing were about feeling loved and accepted by your in-laws (as you said), then how would my getting you a watch change things?
In this thread you have made up halachos, insulted the entire MO community by implying that they don’t “like” halachos and cursed my kids by hoping that they have in-laws like the ones you claim you are getting. I’ve given you the best advice that you can hope to receive in this situation. You’re either a fake or someone who is so hung up on petty material things that you are clearly not yet ready for marriage.
Either way, I’m done with you. Feel free to take my advice or leave it.
The Wolf