DY- 10-12% IS a HUMONGOUS difference. That is the problem. that 10% of girls are stuck from day one.
meaning for every 100 boys starting to date there are 110 girls. Year one it’s not so prononced. However, when 95 of those boys are married to 95 of those girls (theoritically) and 15 girls are left over, it becomes 15 to 5, but it is the same 10 girls (1 out of 10 )that were there from day one.
In any event i think we are not disagreeing… and the solution revolves aroudn closing the age gap in the early dating years.
Cshapiro: Hashem didn’t cause this problem. HE simply allowed us to mess up (as he is wont to do). Please don’t blame HIM for what we humans have wrecked. Instead lets get to work on solving it.