Canine: absolutely incorrect. Never have never will. Each and every boy is free to marry whomever he thinks will make the best wife for him, and he the best husband for her. Please don’t put words in my emails. And i’d be glad to discuss solutions instead of trying to asses balme.
DY- the point you make is the devastating factor. When it’s 100 boys and 110 girls it’s one thing.. when it’s 2 boys and 12 girls it’s tragic….