What a strange thread. I didn’t marry my husband to change him.
However, we both help each other overcome our individual weaknesses. For example, I’m not responsible, so my husband helps me out by giving me specific tasks to do. He also teaches me to look at what has to happen first and foremost and concentrate on that and break things up into small, doable tasks.
He is helping me refine who I am for the better. I hope he can say the same about me.