and i thought from the header that it was a question, if you have had enough of your present spouse, how easy is it to change spouses. like can i pick one up in a second hand shop….??
i once heard the story of the guy who went to the Kosel and saw his friend there at the wall crying and wailing like never before, thinking what terrible tragedy must have befallen his friend he runs over to him and says, “yankel, what happened”??
“oy!, said Yankel, “all my friends are already on their second or third wife and i am still stuck with my first”!!!
sad, maybe not funny, but too true!!!
we are living in a dispoasable world where we want to keep on changing instead of being happy with what weve got.
so to answer the original question, anyone marrying their spouse in the hope they will change and be someone else, should rather stay single!!!