It is definitely NOT accepted and it is quite rude. Whoever the collector is they are NOT the only person coming to collect and the giver knows who he wants to give to and how much he wants to give. If he graciously gives everyone that walks in then kol hakovod to him. No one has the right to push him to give more, they should graciously thank the giver and zeh hu. Just because a person has a big house or a nice car in the driveway does not give another person a right to judge how much he has in the bank or how much he thinks he deserves.
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