“Some people like to object, in the CR, to things they find untzniusdig or otherwise objectionable. “As with all things of this nature, if you don’t like it, DON’T DO IT. ”
OK, DY, I will state it for the record – I do not find these cards to be untzniusdig or objectionable in any way. I think more women would be happy in their marriages if their husbands would show them such romantic gestures. Maybe a chosson should not hand his kallah a rose when he comes to badeck her, because it is a public display. Maybe saying Harei aht in an audible voice is not tzniusdig, because it binds his kallah to him. Maybe someone can find something unztniusdig in ANYTHING, if they look for it. I believe we have so many bona fide untzniusdig things to worry about, that it is a waste of time to look for it in innocent things.