always here: my son wrote on the florist’s little card “To: ___, I’m so happy you’re going to be my wife! From: Your Chossen”
The OP is referring to the shamncy arraignment you mentioned, complete with a mushy poem that goes for $50-150 even $200.
The amount of money is irrelevant (personal finances are not the issue). What is relevant is that these poems disservice the couple, as previously mentioned, and lack in tznius.