“What are good topics to discuss during the first couple of dates when the couple is first getting acquainted with each other. “
We met on frumster.com and corresponded for five weeks before we could meet in person as we lived in different cities and the fall chagim took place during that time. In that correspondence we talked about our goals, values, hashkafah, lifestyles, and politics quite early on. Before we met we talked to each others’ rabbis. By the time we met we knew we had a huge amount in common so that the only question was whether there was chemistry.
I found this SO much better than all the blind dates that went nowhere.