DY- Exactly.
If anyone is interested i’d be happy to point out accurate factors in additon to age gap casuing difficulties in shidduchim. I just wasn’t going to let a totally unsubtantiated personal hypotesis go with out challenging it.
and that’s exactly what the OP’s statement was. Pure unproven conjecture.
OC:
“My point is that there are lots more singles than ever who go on for years looking for perfect”
Please show proof that this is a new or worsening phenonama. Any and all data I have seen shows nothing of the sort.
“What it boils down to is that the guys, more often than not, can afford to be pickier than the girls, bec after a while girls run out of older guys to date, and guys dont have that problem, because they can simply rob a cradle, which girls cant do.”
So please clarify what you point is? At the end of the day you agree the boys are getting married correct? And the girls aren’t becaue they don’t relly have who to marry?
SO WHAT EXACTLY IS YOUR POINT???
That some guys get married at 28 instead of 23. And you huypothesize (without proof) that nowadays more guys are getting married at 28 as opposed to they used to get married earlier?
Is that the totallity of you point. Because that’s NOT what was written or implied in the OP.
Fankly, even if that point was true (which i have no reason to think it is) it is a minor minor issue in the grand scheme of things.