i think the problem here is the system. why do we look for spouses the way we shop for groceries? do you find friends that way too? because i hope no one here has forgotten, your spouse is meant to be your best friend. and no one finds a best friend. no one. you find a friend, and then you build that friendship into something more. so stop looking for mister/miss perfect because there is no such thing. perhaps if we went on a date looking for friendship instead of a trophy wife, we might end up finding something more.
