vicpr – ” You want learning? Make sure he goes to a shiur once or twice a week and let him learn on weekends. Guys who do this enjoy learning and look forward to it a lor more than guys who do it every day and its routine.”
What’s so bad about working five days a week and learning every day of the week? Many of us do it and feel wonderful about it.
And AZ, stop with your nonsense already. No one is going to change and start marrying older females because you or anybody else says so.