Ok, I have to respond to some of these. My response will be in CAPS if the Mods allow
A few more things to add:
Do:
1)Say thank you to all waiters and anyone else that helps you (not everyone does)APPLIES TO BOTH
2)Always have a backup plan. The lounge you want to go to may be full, so its better to have another place to go to then to walk around deserted streets for an hour, get lost, and then go back to that same lounge in an hour to see if any tables opened up. (not impressive)APPLIES TO BOTH
3)Bring 2 umbrellas if its raining MANY GUYS DONT USE UMBRELLAS, LADIES BRING YOUR OWN
4)Keep tissues and some food and drinks in the car THE CAR IS NOT A SNACK BAR
5)Know that it is hard for girls to walk over the grates in the streets if they are wearing heels, they get stuck. Same applies to a boardwalk.GIRLS, WEAR A COMFORTABLE SHOE AS WELL AS A NICE LOOKING ONE, STILLETTOS ARE NOT TZNIUSDIK ANYWAY
6)If you plan on taking the girl out to eat let her know. She is not sure if u plan on taking her so she is not sure if she should eat supper b4 or not SHOULD BE DISCUSSED BY BOTH PARTIES
7)AND if you plan on going milchigs, even 2 stop in starbucks, let her know. she mite have eaten fleishig supper since she didnt know food was on the agenda SHOULD BE DISCUSSED BY BOTH PARTIES
8) No one likes to meet half of their friends when they go out so take them someone different or at least not a few blocks away SHOULD BE DISCUSSED BY BOTH PARTIES
9)Girls like guys that are put together and have confidence
APPLIES TO BOTH
Dont:
1)Drop the girl off 3 houses away and then zoom off b4 she even gets to her house (true story) 100% AGREED!
2)Order ur own dessert while the girl is still eating her main AGREED
3)Dont beg the lounge to let you come in even if there’s no room. Or try to bring drinks down to chairs that are in an area where they dont let you bring them and then beg them to let u just drink them there.
4)DONT TEXT WHILE ON A DATE!!! APPLIES TO BOTH
5)If u see ur friend dont go over and shmooze 4 ten minutes, its not polite APPLIES TO BOTH
6)Do Not tell ur date that u just got ur license, its not impressive, its concerning to be in the car with u!
Thats all 4 now