OK, confession time!
Am I the only one who is specifically jealous (I try hard not to be) of those who marry off all their children, one after another, early? I consider that one of the biggest gifts of all, because of the stress it leads to when one has difficulty in that area. Its such Heartbreak Hotel.
Is it only me? Money, kavod, and all the rest dont even come close. Possibly health and Yiddishe Nachas from children and grandchildren both tie for second place.