eclipse! welcome back!
i was babysitting for someone everyday and I would have ppl tell me, “well did you ask the grandmother if you can do this?” (note she wasnt the mother she was the GRANDMOTHER!)or “well my Dr. says to do this.” and they would run to the mother and ask if this and this was OK, never mind what I was saying or doing. B”H i left that job because when you have to work with people like that and who dotn stop critzing, you just stop! the mother didnt care what I did. I was hired to do a job and I have been babysitting for many years at this point and I was having many people give me unsolicited advice for no reason! I was doing the right thing, feeding the baby, playing etc it was just so bad!
Then I was telling someone something one day that maybe my stomach hurt and and I was married only about 6 months and I said joking “maybe I’m pregnant” and what does she say…”YOU BETTER NOT BE!” who are you to tell me when and when not to be expecting! Hello I dont need your advice on that!