snow, ofcourse, i agree with you. i think i know one. not more…
Im almost willing to bet that this ONE (Shidduch resulting from calling a Shadchan off a list) resulted in the Shadchan realizing early in the call, that the caller and them have some mutual relative or close friend (that the Shadchan wanted to please), so the Shadchan was willing to talk.
Otherwise, fuegeddabattit.