i’m sorry – i’ve just skimmed your posts and haven’t read all of them thoroughly, so maybe i’m missing something. but is it just me or do others find this makes them nauseous? only way to get guys to date someone is by paying them? and if guy got paid to date a girl, he’ll then see her as a person and not an object? what does that do for chance of marriage?
p.s. i and my husband got married when over 25 – nobody paid him or shadchan extra money for making this shidduch.