Reaching out for advice, but in the end, will most likely continue to hold up her end of the smoke screen, letting the public think her husband is shteiging away, instead of facing the fact that some boys are simply happier working (gasp!)
And since she may have single sisters / brothers who are still on the full time learner track, there can be no dissent from the her. Her parents will see to that.
Family pressure is no joke. Take it from someone who dared buck the trend; you make lots of waves, and all everyone wants you to do is “just stop making trouble for the rest of us”
That is, unless you’ve got the moxie to stand up to the crowd. Which is a tought battle. Will she take a stand? I sure hope so.