I do agree that every wife needs to respect her husband and not focus on his flaws…
But I dont think its that simple in her situation..
I highly doubt she knew about his lack of functioning, and the truth about his relationship with Hashem before she agreed to marry him………
Everyone says love and respect cums with time, and it cums after the wedding.. when real life sets in, when u get to TRULY know the person..
Just like respect builds, so does dis-respect.
Its not exactly easy to close your eyes to the things u disrespect especially if they r young, and havent exactly built up a foundation..