truth be told: Don’t know what you are asking? What does innocence have to do with Hashem taking anyone away?
But to think Hashem would kill thousands of innocent people to send you a message is nonsense. The atrocities in Sodom was clearly spelled out in chumish and all merforshem, which extended to women and children. They were not innocent. If hashem punishes evil people, he would use them as a message, not innocent people. Do you think the Fogel family, A’H and may their blood be avenged, was a message to you? I think that is a sick way of thinking. Leave the calculations to hashem since as a human we are incapable of understanding his derech. Definitely do not make up chashboynis for him.