Aries, GAMARNU. Esther admitted that she was wrong. Were you ever big enough to do that? Not in the CR, IIRC. Right now you sound to us more wrong than Esther. WILL YOU LEAVE HER ALONE?!
Esther, you said, “Older people demand respect,but that respect has to be EARNED.” Not true. They “earned” their respect by virtue of ???? ???? ????, ????? ??? ???, much like parents, whether you like them or not. An elder who earned his respect, i. e. a talmid chochom, must be doubly respected.