Ofcourse there r a lot more expensive then music and flowers. Video pics makeup which could cost up to $100 a face hair done…liquor gowns rentals could cost a few hundred each if not from a gemach and the list goes on and on
And the young couple needs more things in the house then anybody has cuz the stores will close the day after sheva brochos. Spend thousands on “setting up the house” (not incl furniture)