anon1m0us-
They should definitely be picky about the important things. Dont ever settle for someone who is on a lower frumkeit level than you wanted.
I once had a screaming match with a man who told me that I’ll never get the guy I’m looking for and I should just marry anyone because nowadays the girls are frummer than the boys so someones gotta settle.
And I said you dont know what youre talking about and I will never settle on that. Maybe on looks, height, family, etc. But not frumkeit and middos.
Mind you, I got engaged to everything I wanted and more 3 months later.