“Sometimes its just not the right time for you to get married, its not even a matter of hishtadlus. “
I know. What I meant was, sometimes it looks as though a person is not married yet is because of “this reason” or “that issue”, when you look (and I mean, really look) at people that are already married, you see that, despite whatever “shortcomings” they might have (and trust me, we ALL have them) we still got married.
In fact, after a few years, those very “shortcomings” turn out to have very little,if any, impact on the day-to-day success of the marraige.
At any rate, considering all the tefilos that were said this Purim, this thread will be looked back on, with a sigh of nostalgia!