chanab,
many thousands of years ago(!),I used to customize the game.Each had to suggest a question,both wrote down answers,
and then shared the answers.
Examples:
Q.What quality that you were FIRST drawn to,do you still see in (the other spouse)?
Q.What drives (the other spouse) bananas?
Q.Name 2 favorite
of (the other spouse).
Q.What accomplishment of (other spouse) still makes you very proud?