umm- while i can understand that advice- i need to say i dont think that should be said to newlyweds. i had that little lesson drummed into me in highschool and kallah class, and being the good little concientious girl i was i took it seriously. i went through a very bad “shanah reshonah and a half” with out it ever crossing my mind to talk to anyone about it- “no good can come from it, disloyalty to him..” when it got to the point where i was ready for a divorce and finally told my parents they were like “whyyyy did u wait so long???” im not the only one this has happened to- but i was just the lucky enough to not get withchild and possibly remain trapped in a terrible marriage. i think girls need to be educated about marriage and to have someone they can definately talk to.
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