Reply To: middos therapist

truth is the blame game is sooo complicated. i always used to blame parents, but realize now that these parents also have their limitations. it’s not even just limitations in being abusive or not, but some people are more inclined to try to change, and some people are born with more inflexible, not wanting to change, and/or not having even a clue how.

all i know is that each person is given what they need to be the person they are supposed to become (not perfect – pba; though i am prone to the perfectionism, you spoke about).

i have no clue how it all works together, because some people are truly, truly suffering out there due to the imperfections of others. 🙁