My daughter had been dating for about 2 years.. 13 boys.
I’m not a big learner, but I decided to learn from ‘Chofetz Chaim – A Lesson A Day’ daily for 40 days. Just about at the end of the 40 days, she was redt a shidduch, & they were engaged 2 1/2 weeks – 6 or so dates- later. That was almost 8 years ago. B’H!!
I promise this is true.
(I believe) my daughter’s biggest thing was to daven for CLARITY.