My heart goes out to all those who need shidduchim and are trying so hard to stay strong.
As far as trading tehillim names, I have a suggestion, which can be done right here on YWN. Anyone can open a screen name specifically for this purpose (on a different thread, this idea was approved by a moderator) and either post the name in this thread or the “sticky” tehillim thread.
My suggestion would be for each post to contain a friend’s name as well, to retain some level of privacy, for those who wish.
Please remember that no immediate results are guaranteed, but what is guaranteed is that no tefillah or tehillim is ever wasted.