I would not mind a cz ring.
Other jewlery, I want, but I it doesnt need to b real or expensive, just nice.
Silver candlesticks- what 4??? crystal, ceramic is beautifull
A small lchaim is nice.
A vort- why does it even exist??
I would love a tiny wedding in a shul with just immediate family. It would be so personal and meaningfull. Maybe dance for an hour.
Everyone else can come wish me mazal tov over the next week during sheva brachos.