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minyon on a plane

of course

but one has to use seichel

there are times when one needs to refrain from what would otherwise do when it will cause a chilul Hashem

and there are times when one must not

it is usually a shayla but one always has to use seichel and sometimes ask a Talmid Chochum

what Hashem wants comes first, ALWAYS, not what the goyim will think.

IF in this case it is better to risk possible unforseen disastrous events that may eventually arise from an innocent display of friendliness and warmth, then so be it.

if not, then so be it. but it is a consideration and a shayla.

a crucial one